LoveCag,
Not many complaints that I heard on the voice but statements about where she will be and when and when she has to be home or at work. One statement was "he didn't want to discuss it" and not sure what that was unless it was last weekend about not wishing to do something with her. If she has complaints to HIM maybe after last night she has already somehow complained again to him. We had a weekend date night planned but it didn't happen. I was too upset and too down after this week to consider being with her and that was right after listening to just part of her voice talking about private stuff and calling someone Honey a few times. Unex[ected bad argument and she got livid and that is now where we're at now, that I'm suspicious and not enjoyable to be with and she's selfish and couldn't care less about us.
LA ~
Do you know what her prof's name is?
If not, find out!
Next ~
Plan A'ing is the hardest thing to do when your emotions are raw!
Your emotions are R A W!
However, you can implement rational, cognitive thought-processes in making the "decision" to do what needs to be done here...
My father-in-law used to have a saying...
I know you know it!
"When the going gets tough, the tough gets going!"Get your "tough" juices a'goin'!!!!!!!!!!
AND
Remain loving, respectful, kind, gentle, etc.
The very LAST thing you want is for your W to "suspect" that you "suspect" that she's wayward!
If you allow your "R A W" emotions to give you away, she will simply go deeper in her A...
That will make your "snooping" job even more difficult (mentally, emotionally & physically)...
You CAN do this!