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I will never forget the big toof OW's face looking out the back winder crying and screaming "LEAVE US ALONE!!! LEAVE US ALONE!!" She looked very excited! laugh


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Ok, maybe I'm only the 4th angriest poster here, but...but...I was really angry. rotflmao


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Shooooot - and someone (on another forum) once accused me of being abusive to my then wayward husband because I pushed him in the chest after learning of his infidelity??!!!!!!

I LOVE Mel's truck story!!!!! Kinda like the way I love that Carrie Underwood song. Can't think of the name of it, but you know the one!


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Am I the only one that read dumbassexhusband as dumb-as-sex-husband?

I must be having an off night


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Originally Posted by Krazy71
Ok, maybe I'm only the 4th angriest poster here, but...but...I was really angry. rotflmao

I place you at third.
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Originally Posted by TigerWes
Am I the only one that read dumbassexhusband as dumb-as-sex-husband?

I must be having an off night

I did too at first!!!!
lol


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Originally Posted by Krazy71
I was really angry.


Krazy, lemme ask you this.
While you were really angry, did people with a sunny disposition annoy you beyond reason?

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Originally Posted by SunnyDinTX
Originally Posted by TigerWes
Am I the only one that read dumbassexhusband as dumb-as-sex-husband?

I must be having an off night

I did too at first!!!!
lol

Me too.
And I wrote it.

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Originally Posted by Krazy71
Ok, maybe I'm only the 4th angriest poster here, but...but...I was really angry. rotflmao

Get in line, buster!! weightlifter


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Originally Posted by SunnyDinTX
Shooooot - and someone (on another forum) once accused me of being abusive to my then wayward husband because I pushed him in the chest after learning of his infidelity??!!!!!!

Were you holding a sledge hammer at the time?

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Originally Posted by SunnyDinTX
Shooooot - and someone (on another forum) once accused me of being abusive to my then wayward husband because I pushed him in the chest after learning of his infidelity??!!!!!!

Were you holding a sledge hammer at the time?

I wish!!!
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Originally Posted by Pepperband
Originally Posted by Krazy71
I was really angry.


Krazy, lemme ask you this.
While you were really angry, did people with a sunny disposition annoy you beyond reason?


Great Question Pep - I often wonder that myself.

Do really angry (raging) blame everyone else kind of people not do well when they given kindness, love, and patience?

This brings me to Plan A. Can Plan A repel the wayward because they cannot be around someone being nice to them, when they are committing such betrayal?

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Originally Posted by PrayIncessantly
Originally Posted by Pepperband
Originally Posted by Krazy71
I was really angry.


Krazy, lemme ask you this.
While you were really angry, did people with a sunny disposition annoy you beyond reason?


Great Question Pep - I often wonder that myself.

Do really angry (raging) blame everyone else kind of people not do well when they given kindness, love, and patience?

This brings me to Plan A. Can Plan A repel the wayward because they cannot be around someone being nice to them, when they are committing such betrayal?

When I was in the angry stage I didn't want anyone patting me on the head saying stupid things like, "It'll blow over... You'll be fine..."

I wanted someone to give me a plan of action to DO something about it.


"The #1 reason why people give up so quickly is because they tend to look at how far they still have to go, rather than how far they've gotten."

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Melody bashed the truck, beat up the husband AND put a run in her nylons and broke a heel ??? Oh.my.goodness. I'll make sure I follow all her advice lest I get on her bad side !!! rotflmao


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Wooohoooo! That's how a real southern lady deals with it.

Gretchen Wilson must have been inspired by Mel to write "Homewrecker"... (Not with Mel AS the "hopeful" OW of course)


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Originally Posted by FindingFreedom
Melody bashed the truck, beat up the husband AND put a run in her nylons and broke a heel ??? Oh.my.goodness. I'll make sure I follow all her advice lest I get on her bad side !!! rotflmao

I messed my hair and nails up too!! cry


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Originally Posted by FindingFreedom
Melody bashed the truck, beat up the husband AND put a run in her nylons and broke a heel ??? Oh.my.goodness. I'll make sure I follow all her advice lest I get on her bad side !!! rotflmao
Please be sure to note that Melody follows her own advice: she left her gun in her car. laugh


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If you take Mel with you, you don't need a gun.


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Originally Posted by Neak
If you take Mel with you, you don't need a gun.

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Originally Posted by NeverGuessed
Always a pleasure to meet another poster with some "spirit"!

I also was deemed a "purple people eater" on that other site and was...excused...from further participation. (Of course I also did two weeks in the sin-bin here - a year ago today, as a matter of fact!)

Welcome back K71.

I was excused from that other site for calling a duck a duck. Go figure.


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