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Originally Posted by notafeeling
She no longer bears the ring.
Ate you still out of your marital home?

What are you doing to protect yourself financially?

Have you still confirmed no affair?

Did you email the Harleys?


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I got the message from my fiance and I am confuse what should I write please advice.
Here is the message.
"I told you I was sick for the past three to four days. I'm feeling much better now. I don't think my father would be too pleased for me to go to alone. So that's why there has been no trip. It would be great to take time off work though. Who know when that miracle will happen?
So you are coming on Saturday and leaving Thursday, right? That's not bad though. Still longer than your last visit.
As for trying to get to know me more, go ahead and try. "

I will be very thankful of you if can sagest me the right answer.

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Originally Posted by kk786
I got the message from my fiance and I am confuse what should I write please advice.
Here is the message.
"I told you I was sick for the past three to four days. I'm feeling much better now. I don't think my father would be too pleased for me to go to alone. So that's why there has been no trip. It would be great to take time off work though. Who know when that miracle will happen?
So you are coming on Saturday and leaving Thursday, right? That's not bad though. Still longer than your last visit.
As for trying to get to know me more, go ahead and try. "

I will be very thankful of you if can sagest me the right answer.
Your post is confusing. What is the question?


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I wana reply to this message but I don't have word can you please help me

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Originally Posted by kk786
I wana reply to this message but I don't have word can you please help me
You reply is unclear to me. If you can write here, why can't you reply to the message?


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Originally Posted by kk786
I wana reply to this message but I don't have word can you please help me
Can you please start up a thread of your own and give us some details and what your question is?


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Originally Posted by BrainHurts
Can you please start up a thread of your own
Whoops yes - I forgot to say this, Brainy!


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Originally Posted by SugarCane
Originally Posted by BrainHurts
Can you please start up a thread of your own
Whoops yes - I forgot to say this, Brainy!
laugh I got your back.


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me and my fiance doing email communication for understand each other positively but I am not very good in English and I need your help in this regards. I am pasting her email which i got yesterday and I need to reply this email as soon as possible but I don't have words, could you please help me, so I can reply her.
Hope to hear from you soon.

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Originally Posted by kk786
me and my fiance doing email communication for understand each other positively but I am not very good in English and I need your help in this regards. I am pasting her email which i got yesterday and I need to reply this email as soon as possible but I don't have words, could you please help me, so I can reply her.
Hope to hear from you soon.
This really doesn't make sense.

She is your fiancee and you have been communicating by email but you don't know how to write in English? How have you managed your email communication so far? And how did you manage to get engaged to this woman if you don't speak the same language very well?


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Originally Posted by BrainHurts
Originally Posted by SugarCane
Originally Posted by BrainHurts
Can you please start up a thread of your own
Whoops yes - I forgot to say this, Brainy!
laugh I got your back.

me and my fiance doing email communication for understand each other positively but I am not very good in English and I need your help in this regards. I am pasting her email which i got yesterday and I need to reply this email as soon as possible but I don't have words, could you please help me, so I can reply her.
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Originally Posted by SugarCane
Originally Posted by kk786
me and my fiance doing email communication for understand each other positively but I am not very good in English and I need your help in this regards. I am pasting her email which i got yesterday and I need to reply this email as soon as possible but I don't have words, could you please help me, so I can reply her.
Hope to hear from you soon.
This really doesn't make sense.

She is your fiancee and you have been communicating by email but you don't know how to write in English? How have you managed your email communication so far? And how did you manage to get engaged to this woman if you don't speak the same language very well?

She is my cousin and we have same language. We use our mother-tong when we talk over the phone or face to face discussion. She is very good in English and I am trying to be good in english. Anyways. I can write her reply but only one sentence is confusing me. I would be very thankful of you if you can let me know correct meaning of this sentece, so I can reply her. Looking forward.

"It would be great to take time off work though. Who know when that miracle will happen?"

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So you are asking people for help with translation and writing sentences? That is not what this board exists for. This board exists to help people learn about implement the Marriage Builders programme.

There are free translation services available on the Internet. What is your mother tongue? In what part of the world do you live?


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Originally Posted by kk786
She is my cousin and we have same language. We use our mother-tong when we talk over the phone or face to face discussion. She is very good in English and I am trying to be good in english. Anyways. I can write her reply but only one sentence is confusing me. I would be very thankful of you if you can let me know correct meaning of this sentece, so I can reply her. Looking forward.

"It would be great to take time off work though. Who know when that miracle will happen?"
Your fiancee is your cousin...right. To each his own I suppose.

So you can communicate perfectly well in your mother tongue - which is what? But you are trying to learn English and you have come here for help with translation. That is the oddest request I have ever heard from a poster to Marriage Builders.

I don't know how anyone can explain the meaning of that sentence unless they can explain it to you in your mother tongue. I suggest you use Google translate. Put the sentence there and select the language you want it translated to. You'll get your answer right away.


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Ok Highjackers. Your fiance/cousin means that its unlikely she will be able to take time off work to visit with you. She works so much it would be a miracle to be able to make the time you need to have a good visit and some time for meaningful fellowship. She means this straight forward, its not some saying or its not an English Idiom or Idiomatic Expression.
"It would be great to take time off work though. Who know when that miracle will happen?"
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Originally Posted by notafeeling
She no longer bears the ring.
Are you still out of your marital home? Y frown
What are you doing to protect yourself financially? Nothing.
Have you still confirmed no affair? Now I am confused again, if you're not going to date why take off your ring? Women tell us why, when you took off your ring and what meaning did that have for you.
Did you email the Harleys? Twice, they don't know about the ring.They kindly did a free radio session each time.

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Originally Posted by notafeeling
Ok Highjackers. Your fiance/cousin means that its unlikely she will be able to take time off work to visit with you. She works so much it would be a miracle to be able to make the time you need to have a good visit and some time for meaningful fellowship. She means this straight forward, its not some saying or its not an English Idiom or Idiomatic Expression.
"It would be great to take time off work though. Who know when that miracle will happen?"
Originally Posted by BrainHurts
Originally Posted by notafeeling
She no longer bears the ring.
Are you still out of your marital home? Y frown
What are you doing to protect yourself financially? Nothing.
Have you still confirmed no affair? Now I am confused again, if you're not going to date why take off your ring? Women tell us why, when you took off your ring and what meaning did that have for you.
Did you email the Harleys? Twice, they don't know about the ring.They kindly did a free radio session each time.
Did they answer on the show? If yes, when?

What was their advice to you?


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1st the advice was: The powers that be on this website basically say, (and I agree with)their conclusion is that she is in an affair and/or in withdrawal. They say the next state above would be "state of conflict" and that would be a better position. They suggest I say, "I am willing to go to great lengths to eliminate the problems that you saw in me." The other advice they give is truthful, very perceptive yet they say this is a very tough case. 2nd was: The last radio program about me suggested the way for the couple to adjust to their different sex drives or ideas about what sexual and how much sexual interaction is normal or acceptable is to get help from a sex therapist. I can see that. I am unable to communicate anything because of the Restraining Order. Now she has petitioned the court to move her and the kids out of state.

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