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Yeah oh a good note I am finishing up love busters and that book is very insightful.
Married for 3 years
And going through a seperation.
me bh 33
her ww 34
2 kids
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my ds 8
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Yeah oh a good note I am finishing up love busters and that book is very insightful. I like that one too and Buyers, Renters and Freeloaders and Effective Marriage Counseling. Found some more clips of a BH Plan A'ing from afar. Radio Clip on a BH Plan Aing his WW from afar Segment #2 Segment #3
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Thank you brainhurts you rock and roll all night long!
Married for 3 years
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me bh 33
her ww 34
2 kids
her dd 14
my ds 8
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Thank you brainhurts you rock and roll all night long! As a librarian would. 
FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Either way im very glad for this forum I found out my faults and what I did wrong. I am very glad I learned patience and im still stupidly in love with ww.
Married for 3 years
And going through a seperation.
me bh 33
her ww 34
2 kids
her dd 14
my ds 8
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Either way im very glad for this forum I found out my faults and what I did wrong. I am very glad I learned patience and im still stupidly in love with ww. The best place to learn and make yourself a better person.
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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The radio show went well and verified what I needed to do for myself. Here's your show. Radio Clip of Chitenator's Show Segment #2 Segment #3 Segment #4
FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Thank you brain hurts I am always looking for more info. Like I said you rock and roll all night long!!
Married for 3 years
And going through a seperation.
me bh 33
her ww 34
2 kids
her dd 14
my ds 8
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You're welcome. 
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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I had to pick up dsd up yesterday cause ww couldnt and wanted me too. It is really sad that dsd lost all respect for ww for acting like a child and not like her mother. Also dsd hates the om tries everything to get under his skin by putting stuff he is allergic to in his food.
Married for 3 years
And going through a seperation.
me bh 33
her ww 34
2 kids
her dd 14
my ds 8
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I had to pick up dsd up yesterday cause ww couldnt and wanted me too. It is really sad that dsd lost all respect for ww for acting like a child and not like her mother. Also dsd hates the om tries everything to get under his skin by putting stuff he is allergic to in his food. What does your WW say to DSD when she expresses her distaste for OM? Has she ever written a letter to her mom saying exactly how she feels?
FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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The classic ignore her. Cause the om is her soul mate and nothing else matters. Ill ask her to write a letter see if that helps.
Married for 3 years
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me bh 33
her ww 34
2 kids
her dd 14
my ds 8
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I hate the fact that ww is dragging her daughter down with her its one thing you do it to yourself but another to someone that looks up to you. I feel cursed that I love dsd so much that much more is at stake.
Married for 3 years
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her ww 34
2 kids
her dd 14
my ds 8
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All this waiting is driving me crazy I just heard from dsd that ww wants to have posom's baby! And also they have no stability. I feel so screwed!
Married for 3 years
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me bh 33
her ww 34
2 kids
her dd 14
my ds 8
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Ok sorry back on sane subjects my dsd says he gets annoyed when around dsd. She also said he admitted to doing drugs to dsd boy friend so right now this info is getting me on edge for ww and dsd life. But dsd is always at her grandmas house. I also told dsd to call the police if ww sneeks om man in the house.
Married for 3 years
And going through a seperation.
me bh 33
her ww 34
2 kids
her dd 14
my ds 8
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Ok sorry back on sane subjects my dsd says he gets annoyed when around dsd. She also said he admitted to doing drugs to dsd boy friend so right now this info is getting me on edge for ww and dsd life. But dsd is always at her grandmas house. I also told dsd to call the police if ww sneeks om man in the house. What about grandma? Will she not talk to your WW?
FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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She has she wants to kick ww out cause of the lies but does not want her take dsd. I so wish I could have her live with me.
Married for 3 years
And going through a seperation.
me bh 33
her ww 34
2 kids
her dd 14
my ds 8
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She has she wants to kick ww out cause of the lies but does not want her take dsd. I so wish I could have her live with me. Hmmm Maybe an angle here? How about DSD14 writes the letter and grandma adds to it. Will DSD14 tell WW that she wants to stay with grandma? Grandma tells WW that she eeds to leave and DSD14 is staying? Write Dr. Harley and ask him to tell her that for DSD14's health she should stay with grandma and not be around WW while she's engaging in her affair???
FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Ill talk to dsd about that tomorrow when I take her for lunch.
Married for 3 years
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me bh 33
her ww 34
2 kids
her dd 14
my ds 8
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