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I know its pissing her off that I am calm and not yelling anything. I have stood my ground.. I will not move out of my house. The police will have to drag me out of the house.


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I have not told her I'm sorry for exposing. I told her I'm sorry she is angry, I will tell her I'm sorry she is hurting and I will stop telling her I did it to save the marriage.


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Originally Posted by wifedivorcing
I know its pissing her off that I am calm and not yelling anything. I have stood my ground.. I will not move out of my house. The police will have to drag me out of the house.

clap You are doing awesome!! It is so tempting to get dragged into fights and that is exactly what she wants...


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Originally Posted by wifedivorcing
I have not told her I'm sorry for exposing. I told her I'm sorry she is angry, I will tell her I'm sorry she is hurting and I will stop telling her I did it to save the marriage.

Exactly!


"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena.." Theodore Roosevelt

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I will tell her I felt everyone should know about the affair..


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On a side note, do y'all keep track of WARNING tickets?? Those don't count, right?


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I pray to God she wakes up and comes out of the fog...


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no we don't do warning tickets, we just let you go with a warning...


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Originally Posted by wifedivorcing
I pray to God she wakes up and comes out of the fog...

Exposure will go a long way in achieving that goal... You don't see it now, but her affair is in a free fall. By exposing, it you have made it impossible for her to bring the OM out into the light of day. You have made it much harder for her.


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Originally Posted by wifedivorcing
I will tell her I felt everyone should know about the affair..
Exactly!!!

Why wouldn't she want you to share her news with everyone???


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Originally Posted by wifedivorcing
no we don't do warning tickets, we just let you go with a warning...

I hope you don't give nice ladies speeding tickets!! sigh


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She did tell me she filed for divorce because she was done with me.. I just listened when she was screaming and yelling..


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Originally Posted by wifedivorcing
She did tell me she filed for divorce because she was done with me.. I just listened when she was screaming and yelling..
We've never heard that before from an angry wayward after exposure. laugh

Did you read the craziest things to come out of a Wayward's piehole that I posted to you?


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Originally Posted by MelodyLane
Originally Posted by wifedivorcing
no we don't do warning tickets, we just let you go with a warning...

I hope you don't give nice ladies speeding tickets!! sigh

Snort....chuckle.


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Originally Posted by BrainHurts
Originally Posted by wifedivorcing
She did tell me she filed for divorce because she was done with me.. I just listened when she was screaming and yelling..
We've never heard that before from a angry wayward after exposure. laugh

And a wayward has never said,"Well I was considering staying with you, but now there is no chance."

Yup, Brain, never heard that one before either.




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Originally Posted by Justthe3ofus
Originally Posted by BrainHurts
Originally Posted by wifedivorcing
She did tell me she filed for divorce because she was done with me.. I just listened when she was screaming and yelling..
We've never heard that before from a angry wayward after exposure. laugh

And a wayward has never said,"Well I was considering staying with you, but now there is no chance."

Yup, Brain, never heard that one before either.

Exactly!!!


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We don't give nice ladies tickets..


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Originally Posted by wifedivorcing
We don't give nice ladies tickets..
Did you hear that Mel???

Nice ladies don't get tickets. laugh


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Originally Posted by wifedivorcing
We don't give nice ladies tickets..

They do in the south!!! dramaqueen


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Gonna drive in drag from now on.

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