There is no good response to be had. Reason you are making LB withdrawals by arguing, debating, and trying to educate the WW. None of that is doing a plan A.

Do both but do not make a move before you talk to your lawyer. You do not want to do anything to harm your civil case.

So are you saying those text where LB withdraws, I noticed you said there is no good response,in that cas a simple yes would of been enough rather than what I text. just acknowledge what she said. I could of just agreed and left it that way. I don't want to educate her, argue or debate. I never argue with her and if I dont know an answer, I just listen and not say anything.

In your opinion what would be a good response.

I will not tell you what to say. You have done good plan A calls and texts already. Thing is you are not to get sucked into fighting, disagreeing, educating a WW. These things only make love bank withdrawals. Plan A is about making LB deposits.

I would not respond to any post where she is trying to get your goat. Do not take the bait. The way you are smart enough to not talk divorce you be just as smart when she tries to bait you.

In my opinion there is no need for you to respond to her saying you are wrong because you are down one wife and one child in your house.

does she have a favourite cologne that you wear? maybe put a light hint of that on the note��.it would make her think of you, or a doodle you do �.something that will connect you to her����..

I'm with The Road. Send the texts you normally do. But when she says something foggy, you don't always have to reply.

ask her what it would be like just sitting in the sand on the beach just relaxing in the midst of all the stress��if she is receptive ask her if she would consider a weekend away no stress just as friends, she may feel so stress she may say yes you never know, I planned a trip when my husband said we were over and he followed me down there and stayed for 10 days ��..
you never know

I kind of sit here wondering does this women have any love for me at all. It seems since exposure everything got worst and she is more towards OM.

Yes, she is angry because you interfered with her affair. That is to be expected. She was already drawn to the OM before because she was having an affair!! You don't get any more attached than that. She just covered it up better. Exposure bursts the affair fog and makes it die much faster. We have had many affairs die the day they are exposed.

I think you should definitely hire a PI to get photos of her at the OM's house. You can easily get that in one day.

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It looks like she has a routine, went to OM this morning because she starts at 9:00am, I'm sureshe will be doing it friday same thing. She doesnt have SS he more than likely is going to stay with his dad, he is off for easter break.

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Don't worry about her response to exposure it is expected.

She can't come home to you anymore and get Love Busters that she can run and tell the OM about and he can no longer console her about it. They must now make a romantic relationship like anyone else, without the rush of the secrecy. One of the big things that probably fueled the A was her telling him about how terrible you were and him consoling her (this is the biggest LB deposit you can make).

Just believe in the plan, you are making the OM earn his LB deposits now and he likely

Iwill fall short of her expectations and remorse will begin to build. Especially if she sees how great and attractive you've become. She will think to herself, 'I left him for this?' Keep yourself attractive and make yourself even more attractive then you were and when he starts LBusting she will realize the mistake and he won't be able to compete with the fantasy she built up in her mind.

Sorry wd, my mistake I thought Dr. Harley read your email on the show, but it looks like he just corresponded with you through email. Is that correct?

Have you corresponded anymore with Dr. Harley?