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Originally Posted by LA11
Don't think I would like to do that....
Why not? Have you ever listened to MB radio?


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No I haven't...and where and how do I begin my saga?

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Originally Posted by BrainHurts
Email your questions to Joyce Harley at mbradio@marriagebuilders.com. When your email question is chosen to be answered on the radio show, you will be notified by email directing you to listen to the rebroadcast. If you would like to consider being a caller, include your telephone number. You will be called by us to explain the procedure to you. Every caller will receive a complementary book by Dr. Harley that addresses their question.
Did you read this? Send your email to mbradio@marriagebuilders.com.

If you click the listen now on the top right corner of your page you can listen right now.


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So....My WH affair is over. I told him I would not have anything to do with him or speak to him till he moved out...I am hearing he wants to speak to me....Thoughts please...

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Originally Posted by LA11
So....My WH affair is over. I told him I would not have anything to do with him or speak to him till he moved out...I am hearing he wants to speak to me....Thoughts please...
Are you in Plan B?


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Yes I am

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Merged threads. Please stick to one thread.


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Did you ever write Dr. Harley?


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No daughter been ill attending to that

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I don't understand

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Originally Posted by LA11
So....My WH affair is over. I told him I would not have anything to do with him or speak to him till he moved out...I am hearing he wants to speak to me....Thoughts please...

You later stated that you were in Plan B.

What exactly is Your version of Plan B?

How did you hear that his affair is over?

Did you give him a Plan B Letter, which would have caringly described your love for him and a desire to reconcile your marriage, along with specifically pointing out what it would take before you even contemplate reconciliation?

Do you use an IM?

Have you changed your contact information, such as your e-mail address and cell phone number?

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Originally Posted by LA11
So....My WH affair is over. I told him I would not have anything to do with him or speak to him till he moved out...I am hearing he wants to speak to me....Thoughts please...


If you were in Plan B you wouldn't know that. Plan B blocks out all contact and makes it impossible for him to reach you. You need friend to act as an intermediary and you should hear nothing except what comes through them. Which should be nothing except finances/child visits/he is ready to fulfil recovery conditions in full.

You should not be getting told "he wants to talk". Of course he does! ALL wayward spouses want their cake back.

You are in Plan C - the plan most likely to lead to divorce and/or nervous breakdowns.



What would you do if you were not afraid?

"Fear is the little death. Fear is the mind-killer" Frank Herbert.

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