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Pole, I want to point out that you are not in a recovered marriage. Just because your wife said she "wants to work on the marriage" does not mean your problems are solved. Our goal on Marriage Builders is to RECOVER the love in the marriage. MB has a plan to achieve that goal. Dr. Harley didn't set up and provide a free forum to discuss personal philosophies and programs that he doesn't endorse.


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Originally Posted by Pole
Hey, I'm not an expert, just trying to say what worked for me.

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Her love bank is closed and needs to be opened. I believe that is key and the most difficult part. I needed more specific help and a plan on how to do this, which was hard to find and I haven't seen anyone mention...
Anyone mention? Dr. Harley has loads of free advice on his website on the plans. Why would you come and tell a new poster to "research" when you're on Dr. Harley's free forum with loads of free advice on his plans?

Do you listen to MBradio (which is also free)?

What actions has your wife done to work on your marriage?

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OK... Usefull info on how to reconcile...

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi5042b_qa.html


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