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A old friend of mine said he would be willing to be a IM for me, I wish he was closer I guess 15 mins is not horrible.


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Looks like my WW is going to play dirty with custody.
Any recommendations how to deal with that?


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Originally Posted by Ron_C
Looks like my WW is going to play dirty with custody.
Any recommendations how to deal with that?
Do you have a bulldog of a lawyer that will fight for you?


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Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.



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Originally Posted by BrainHurts
Originally Posted by Ron_C
Looks like my WW is going to play dirty with custody.
Any recommendations how to deal with that?
Do you have a bulldog of a lawyer that will fight for you?

I sure hope so, there is not alot lot of lawyers in my county. The call backs of got said I had not case answer mothers always wins.
The one I picked it laid down the while case and I was trying to save the marrage. He was quite agreeable and every one else in the firm. And he starting putting things in place so we has a head start, even removing the one judge from hearing the case.
As far as bulldog not sure, does he seems to have things in order yes.
I know I had him tone down the affidavit, there was a lot of stretching of truth I was not comfortable with.



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Monday was a bittersweet day for me. I went to court for temp orders.

I still wish to fix things between us, but she got a new bf so there goes hope there.

As for me and the kids, my WW has to be out on the 1st of Feb, temporary the step daughter get to be included in the parenting plan and the kids get spend nights with me as the court wants to minimize the time that's with the sitter.
So far it looks good. Thanks for all the prayers and God will working in this situation and keeping part of the family together with me.

I was really surprised my WW did not show up to court just her lawer. I am guessing that's going to be bad for her in the long run.



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Good morning to everyone,

Well my WW moved out. Now my place has a spirit of peace now, it really feels like a bad spiritual influence has left.

The kids are happy, I hope it stays this way going forward. I am sadden that my WW did not make any attempt to say good night or anything like that to the kids. She sent two texts to the oldest DD to her phone. Basically saying I'll see you tomorrow and be ready to do school.

My WW did make a attempt to have me drop off the kids off in the morning. I told her that's not what the judge ordered. I got a smart comment back and the kids better be fed and ready. Not sure what that was about.

Thanks for everyone's prayers and advice.
And two everyone going through this stay strong and remember Yeshua is there for you always.


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Married 4 years
DD 11 and 4
DS 1
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