this stupid @#$^& told my WH that she never wants to talk to me, doesnt owe me any explanations, and never wants to talk to me again. whats that about???????????????? i am so sure. what in the *#@% did i do her. we were SUPPOSEDLY best friends. but, i guess it is true she decided (after all these years of being friends w/me) that my spouse was going to be hers. hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm....

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Kuljey,

My take on this is that if she gave one hang about you she would not have had an affair with your husband. Why would she starting caring now?She did something very, very wrong. She not only had an affair with a married man, she had it with her best friend's husband. I am sure that everytime she sees or hears of you it makes her remember how low she has sunk. This is a self preservation move on her part.. affairs are all about selfishness. This is just one more manifestation of her selfishness.

She is no longer a friend of yours. She is the OW and therefore nothing to you. Your issues are with your husband.

Let it go. Do something wonderful for yourself.
Let it go. Above all do not let HER into your inner soul.

A thought: statistically their relationship has a 3% chance of making it as a permanent relationship. She will get hers, the very nature of the situation she has helped to set up will bite her in the a$$ in the end. You do not need to do anthing but be the very best Kuljey you can be. Karma and life's circumstances will take care of the rest.

<small>[ March 05, 2003, 02:50 AM: Message edited by: zorweb ]</small>

bump

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bump for some more input. thanks

Bump for input .... are you sure you want mine?? LOL!

Here 'tis....

Who cares what she says?
Who cares why she says what she says?
Who cares if she never talks to you again?
Who cares what her imaginary reasons for being an adultress are?

Drop this ... You only have a limited amount of resources and energy ... and you are spending precious brain cells trying to drive the square peg into the round hole .... again!

Do I haf'ta bring in the MB 2X4 and whomp you?

Let this gooooooooo.

Unimportant questions that have no real answers are a great way to increase YOUR ANXIETY!

STOP DOING THIS! .....

(((( HUGS ))))

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KJ
hey, Who cares if she hates you. Hate will make her old and ugly from the inside out. Be good to you. Let her stew in her juices, like Z said, Carma, GOD, and life will see to it that in the end she is the one who loses. You do what is right, that is always the easiest to live with. That is why i have stayed with my marriage so long. I want to do the right thing and know it. I'm sure you do to.
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Do you care what she thinks? WHY? Why in the world would you give a hoot about her opinion? Don't give her a second thought. She is not someone who merits any consideration.

Hey zorweb, you have been missed!!

Gosh, what a bummer she doesn't want to talk, she shouldn't have started doing your H, then, cuz, the 2 of you have a child and you certainly will continue talking to him, calling sometimes...I wonder how the brainiac plans to handle phone calls? Not speak? How about kid parties? Later on, athletic events, concerts....

Her poor planning is not your problem.

Hi ya MelodyLane ...

Guess I just ended up taking an unplaned break... guess I just needed it.

Missed you and the others too.

kuljey ... you are getting good support here. Please let us know how you are doing.