I sent a few text from airplane to my unfaithful spouse.
1. Xxx ((wife name) - think the reasons you told for this grave mistake. You mentioned today that some of what you said was not true.
You know well what is true and what is not. It will help you in clearing clutter of mind. You know well there was no reason for you to do this except you got sucked into an environment where some one was there to manipulate the situation. You let your guard down by importance you received from someone.
2. Don’t forget that the one who manipulated you here had no moral and ethics + he never cared for your well being. Any wrong always gets caught.
3. My counselor advise: See, most Adulterous men don't want trouble from angry husbands. They just want a little side fun and don't give a CRAP about the wayward wife. After all, only the lowest scum would degrade a married woman in such a way. It is obvious he does not care about her. So the idea is to give him as much grief as possible.
4. The lawyer will subpoena the Adulterer scumbag emails, phone records, texts, etc in discovery regarding his adultery with your wife! Entire history will come in public domain. Please let them know.
5. My counselor response to your AP was - actually the adultery with your wife does not only involve 3 people. It involves children, family, and friends. This has no future because he will be eternally hated by your children and their family. You have no reason to hide dirty secrets for him. If he didn't want people to know what he has done to your family, he shouldn't have done it. In most of the cases, these secrets are just for side fun even though they claim to be soul mate.
6. OM (other man) don't sign up for mess. They are usually cowards. they only wanted the fun part not the hard part. He will be on the run soon.
The following text came after the above
- Gname. Stop it
- See what have you done to me
- Forget the other man You have demeaned me completely in front of everyone
- I am very clear on one thing , I was in this relationship willingly
- You or your lawyer what ever you try , I am never going to support any false claim
- You can never force me to do so
- Even if I want to , I cannot stay with you
My text: I am sorry you feel that way.
Her text again
- Because the way you have made me feel and believe how I am
- Nothing can now change that
- You have done whatever you could
- If I so bad what you have told people why are you here
My text: I will certainly go after the scum who destroyed my family
Her text again
- I can’t live with you , with a person who has made me feel so petty
- You almost got me kicked from people
- That is your choice
- I was in this raltionship by choice
- You are wasting your time
- But it’s your choice
- I only stated the fact and sorry that it hurt you
- It did hurt me beyond imagination and all associated
- Kids will suffer the maot
- In front of the world ... so that everyone can judge me and throw stones at me
- You are not a man who can handle stuff
- Kids are suffering a lot in this environment
- It is getting toxic for me and for them
- Neither is it Pleasant for you
- You could clearly not handle your woman
- Handling in terms of her feelings, sentiments nothing
- Live your land of principles ... please spare me
- Living every second with you is demeaning to me
- I can only say that your lawyer or counselor is wasting your time and misleading you
- She is an idiot to make a statement of adultry and all
- I was in an affair with him .. you or your advisor can say or claim whatever you want
- I am not going to lie any more
- I have no intention to hurt you
- What's the reality of life - never ever imagined that will ever exchange such messages in life. Life was all good just a few months ago.