AS a new poster on MB I wanted to start a thread for you so you can get the advice and support you need. I'm afraid your questions posted on other threads may get overlooked.
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On your previous post you said ----
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">My H is on the fence. He says he loves me but has a connection with her. She and her husband were our best friends and business partners.
She is pg with twins. I have asked for NC. They still talk supposedly about business to end that. They are involved in every aspect of our lives and NC is impossible unless we move, which has severe complications as well. I don't want a divorce, but without his emotional support for me I don't think I can hang on. I hate this for my 3 children, but will they be happier if I am? Any suggestions? </font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">A few questions for you......
How long have you been married?
How long was the affair and has your H ended it? Does her H know?
Why is she assuming these babies are YOUR H's and not her H?
Crews, please know you are not alone. Unfortunately there are many women and men here going through the same pain and difficult decisions. Weekends are slow so don't be discouraged if you don't have alot of replies. Keep posting. Let us try to help ......