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He wants her - time to move on
#928169 07/10/01 03:41 PM
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Hi guys,<P>Well, I'm certain now - Wh wants her. Iwish I could say more but he'll read this. He just wants to be friends so it will be easier on the baby.<BR>I hate to say it, but today I wish he would be totally out of my life. I dont want to share this baby with him, especially if theres a possibility (and there is - sorry OW's husband if youre reading this) that she'll be with him and my baby. I know theres nothing legally I can do to stop that from happening. So, please pray I'll handle things with wisdom should it all work out that way - at least for sanity to deal with the very thought.<BR>I'm angry and brokenhearted today. Reality just checked in. Reality bites. I want out.<P>Dancer
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Dancer,<P>My heart goes out to you and your baby. Have you been to the D/D board? We are so sorry to hear this news. It is a terrible place your WH will put everything. I know you are devastated. There just aren't enough words for me to say to make you feel any better.<P>hugs, aftershock
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I am sorry about your situation. You know in times of real trial in our life, that's when we need to seek the positive. I don't want this to sound like I'm lecturing because I just care about people in general. Take a moment to sit back and breathe. Make up a list of all of the good things in your life. You love your baby already don't you? Smile, it could be worse. I know you don't think so, but it could. Go get a manicure or a facial. Do something relaxing because you need it desperately. Don't you ever allow anyone to get you down. It's a hard rut to get out of. Pick yourself up. There are a lot of people here rooting for you. <P>When Life Gives you Lemons- Make Lemonade, right!<BR>

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