<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>TMD<BR>Member posted September 06, 2001 03:03 PM <BR>--------------------------------------------------------------------------------<BR>Gee SNL are you calling your w a liar? I read a post by her re your counseling session last night where she says you stated your continuing love for the OW and committment to her among other things. You have made it abundantly clear here that you are not working on your marriage or have any intention of doing so. In fact I would guess that you use this forum to communicate with your OW about your continuing love for her.<P>Smile's question was related to recovery which you are not in.<BR><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>if you had a specific problem with the content of SNL's reply then address it with a counter, if you have a personal problem with him post to him, why take away form someone elses thread to attack some one else? <P>What are you thinking? whould it be ok for me to guess that your using the forum for a purpose in this instance that isnt marriage building?<P>as far as your opening statement, "is he calling he a liar?" just because people who are obviously on opposite sides of the situation have different perspectives on how an event transpired doesnt mean that one is calling the other a liar. <P>wheres the objectivity. if you think he's avoiding a reality call him on it, but do the same for his W and whats your interest in taking sides? isnt it about helping them both find more of the middle?<P>that was about as rude a thing as ive seen in a while. and it didnt help smile at all.<P>what were you thinking? <P> <P>------------------<BR>in loving service<BR>chaz