My older SIL has emailed me a couple of times. She is angry and confused. She is almost willing to talk to me to get my side... I have been telling her that I just want to help her sister... even if my marriage does not last.

This sister is the one that has always respected me, and there is a chance with her that she will believe me.

She emailed this morning saying her Mom feels she doesn't have all the story as well. She thinks that if her Mom did, she would speak out against it... which is why she is being kept in the dark by my WW.

I will let God do the fighting, but if he gives me the opportunity to talk to SIL, then I will take it.


BH (Me) - 38
WW - 36
Married - 16 years
2 children - 10,12
DD1 - 05/30/05 - EA suspected, W wanted space
DD2 - 07/01/05 - EA/PA discovered & confronted WW
DD3 - 07/21/05 - Further contact discovered and now ended.
11/07/05 - exposed to OMW...
07/01/07 - separated to give "space". recovery was not progressing.
09/04/07 - DDAY all over... new OM.

Patience with God is Faith.
Patience with myself is Hope.
Patience with others is Love.