Morning Gurka!

How many days until you head home? Any word from your last e-mail?

I wouldn't worry too much about her RFO... she hasn't even started her OBC yet and a lot can change between now and her graduation.

If you're still willing, I'd give myself a couple of weeks back home at Ft. Polk to settle back into things before you decide on whether to keep going with Plan-A, or to go dark on her.

Once you've settled in, you can re-evaluate where you are, and then decide where to go. Your W can always change her RFO. The bottom line is that the Army will CONSIDER her request, but will base the final decision on the "needs of the Army". She may decided that she WANTS to go to Ft. Polk, and the Army may send her somewhere else...

Semper Fi,