Originally Posted by markos
Feelings follow actions. Instead of trying to control insecurities, I recommend trying to control what you do in response to insecure feelings.

I can get a 930 CST tomorrow with Steve but no word from my wife. I was thinking about talking to Steve on my own to work through my own issues, is anyone opposed to this? I am watching baby while my wife went with the boy to a school function, then on my way to the office. I got a total of one hour of sleep last night so I'm having a hard time doing much of anything right now.

Married 15 years
12 y/o DD
10 y/o DS
6 y/o DD