Oh, the dating scene, how I love and hate you all at the same time!!!
No official date on Thursday, but we hung out later in the evening. We continued to communicate and I thought we had plans Sunday, but apparently not.
I think the phrase is: 'he's just not that in to you!"
Was there a communication problem? Or is he just impolite and has no regard for other's feelings? If it's the later, good riddens.
Harley says dating is a numbers game, if you're looking to hook up with a longer term partner. I've noticed that when I think that thought I cringe, and I know why. Because there are a-holes out there and I don't feel like fishing through them. At least not now, it might be kinda fun later. In fact, I'm sure I'll have some great times.
I have to believe there are decent, honest, fun, caring guys out there, because we have some here. I haven't given up hope.
Life lesson for me: just as in my marriage, I seem to like the other person more than they like me!
A little introspection might dig up something there. Could be interesting, and freeing.
If I am interested in someone, I am really interested right away. If I am not interested, I am just not.
Are you frustrated that you're not in a relationship? I only ask because of the "right away" ending.
I've decided that I'm just going to have an affair with myself until I can have one with someone else. Why not? My husband is.
I've decided I'd rather hang out in socials settings where I can interact with other people and not date until I've already had the chance to see a little bit of their personality. That'll probably be the norm for what I choose when I'm ready.
