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Now that you know who the OM is did you expose on his side? Who did you expose to on his side?
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Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Yes everyone, exposing on work in 34 minutes (Human resources). Well her father threatened me, but want to help nonetheless.
I will continue the exposure, even I dont want her back, just to see if it works or not.
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Yes everyone, exposing on work in 34 minutes (Human resources). Well her father threatened me, but want to help nonetheless.
I will continue the exposure, even I dont want her back, just to see if it works or not. What family members did you expose to on OM's side? Did you follow the exposure 101 templates on what to say? How did you expose?
FWW/BW (me)
WH
2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Exactly the way was presented in the Exposure 101.
To as much people as possible on Facebook mostly. Family and friends. Colleagues I haven' t done yet, I'll do that when I'm out of the country. The father is threatening me now actually, so I'll delay that one with a few days up to a week.
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Hmmm. Just received a message from my wife "What do you want?" "I am open now to talk, what do you want from me?"
I thought it was so far broken that she hated me. Her father is making threats like crazy. I thought I was done.
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Finish the work exposure now.
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Who did you expose to at the workplace?
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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Her supervisor and people in the Department of Human Resources. Though the people inside the Department of Human Recourses told me they couldn't do anything about personal things. Even if it compromises productivity of the hotel.
She might get fired by her supervisor though, since she only had one chance left. Guests made several complaints about her bringing in her phone, which isn't allowed. And several other complaints in the past weeks.
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And what about the OM? Who at the workplace did you expose to on OM's side? Have you talked with her since she sent you that note?
FWW/BW (me)
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2nd M for both
Blended Family with 7 kids between us
Too much hurt and pain on both sides that my brain hurts just thinking about it all.
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OM is colleague of hers. Yes we talked, she wants full divorce. I told her no, and if she wants to talk we can meet, not gonna talk to her on FB. I just realized this week that she is so childish.
Last edited by johnnyempec; 11/25/16 10:29 PM.
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