And yes, it could definitely changed if she would enroll in the Married Army Couples program, but I don't see that happening.

Given the fact that she still has to complete her OBC, I'd use this time to continue with your plan-A.

You can ask her to change her decision and join the married couples program and come to Ft. Polk a few weeks before she graduates. If she says no after you've plan-A'd her... then you will have to make your final decision then.

I still don't think that your situation is hopeless.

Semper Fi,